Style Podcast #93: When the Ladies Don’t Respond to Style

I’ve recently received some letter from people asking me what to do if the ladies don’t respond to dressing well. Some people think that the women they are around prefer guys in street clothes, and that may not be the route you want to go. Luckily, it’s has nothing to do with what you are wearing. Your clothes are just one element of your overall image. When it comes to dating, there’s probably a lot of other things that can be going wrong. You may not have the confidence to pull of your look yet. You may be lacking in some social skills, and are coming off as either too aggressive or like you don’t want people to talk to you. This kind of thing happens all the time, and guys don’t even know it. On this episode of the Real Men Real Style Podcast, I’m going to do in-depth on the three main reasons the ladies probably aren’t responding to you.
  1. Level up your social skills.
  2. Wear clothing you are confident in.
  3. Some women simply won’t like you.
  • Your problems aren’t style.
  • Clothing is just one element of your personal image.
  • Don’t be afraid to make eye contact.
  • Learn the proper way to approach a woman, it takes practice.
  • Know what topics not to talk about.
  • Humor shows levels of intelligence.
  • Women love to laugh.
  • Be aware of your body language.
  • Don’t come across as overly aggressive or that you don’t want people in your personal space.
  • At some point have that person touch you, or you touch them (appropriately).
  • Some materials invite people to touch you.
  • Own your look and be confident, or you’re just in a costume.
  • Is the look appropriate for the situation?
  • Dating is a numbers game.
  • Only a small percentage of women out there are going to be attracted to you.
  • Different women are attracted to different things.
  • Be sure to have your own standards.

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